Confilicts might precede Love..

It is amazing how our feelings

toward people change very fast

when we don’t know their true

nature, personal feelings & thoughts.

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There is a wisdom in Arabic

says: don’t rush your self to

hate someone


because later on he\she might be your lover.



Also it is said:

Confilicts might precede love.


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All are true words & I experienced them in my life & never learned my

lesson, may be because love is a very wide & complicated feeling that is

understood in different ways with different natures & for sure because

I’m a sensitive person who cares a lot about others.


It is important to give people the chance to reflect them selves, to give your

self the same chance to have a look around you & realize what is next,

how you can be yourself in this universe without melting in its relations &

confusion.


It is ok, I will have my ups & downs, I will laugh & I will cry like any other

human on this earth, but what really count is the good things that you leave

behind you, the good memories, reputation & likeness of some true friends

& hearts.


I’m who I’m, ambitious, creative, sensitive, thoughtful, a little moody &

romantic, I’m proud of who I’m & thankful for everything that have written

for me in life..



So don’t ever love or hate too much cause you will be surprised at the end..


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People should learn to listen rather than talk

There is a famous wisdom

in Arabic which says:

" Only the tree with

fruits which will be

thrown with stones"

The actual meaning

behind those wrods

is that people criticize

only the person who is known of his good behavior & who is liked by others..

The reason that really made me meantion this wisdom in particular

today is that I have been criticized for a decision that I have made in

work, who criticized me is a couple of co-workers, the amazing thing is

that I didn;t give it that much of attention when I heared because

I know what I was doing & after just few seconds of knowing what they

said about it their supervisior the one who helped me in the case commend

on my decision & action although I didn;t really have that much of

interaction with him at work since we work in different departments..

Alhamdo Lellah

Really "People should learn to listen rather than talk"

Yours